Mattering: The Secret to a Life of Deep Connection and Purpose By Jennifer Breheny Wallace

Mattering explores the fundamental human need to feel valued, respected, and significant in the lives of others. Journalist Jennifer Breheny Wallace examines how the sense of “mattering” influences emotional well-being, relationships, and personal success.

Drawing on psychological research and real-life stories, the book explains how feelings of belonging and recognition can shape people’s mental health and life choices. Wallace also addresses how modern pressures—especially among young people—can create feelings of invisibility or inadequacy.

The book offers practical insights on how individuals, families, and communities can foster environments where people feel seen, appreciated, and connected.